OkamiPT
Hot as Ifrit

Why should I have to convince someone to be healthy?

In my experience the fat chicks usually don't want to change their body and when you bring it up they accuse you of being shallow and saying you should love them the way they are. Again I'd rather have someone skinny and beautiful with a great personality, big girls aren't the only ones capable of having good personalities.

I like how everyone is saying i'm "too young" I don't want to hit the too young/too old barrier without ever having a gf. The body is the first thing that attracts you to a person.

I'm 16. As skinny girls have been saying "we're people too!" everyone is saying they're anorexic or have no personality or are shallow just because they try and look good, I don't see how men changed from liking the skinny girls to condemning them for being skinny.

They also say you should enjoy them the way they are. I can enjoy someone skinny the way they are just fine.

Most of the big chicks say they enjoy being fat and if a guy brings up their weight it is said he is shallow.

Bi iels just turn me off, i'm already a jealous type i'm not about to worry about what guys AND girls you're looking at. Generally they're in their mid-late teens or early 20s and aren't looking for a serious relationship. being bi seems to be a fad now anyway (they only use to take up 2 percent of the female population now it's 15 percent, obvious fad is obvious). Surprisingly i've found that the nerdy girls are the bitchiest and hot/dumb ones are the nicest. My friend may not remember anything I said the next day due to how much she smokes weed and drinks but she listens and gives decent advice LOL.

I like intelligence but I also like her to be somewhat dumb at times/clumsy since I find that adorable. Sounds like it's hard to find but there are a lot of girls like that. There are not a lot of nerdy girls where I am and I don't seem to attract them. At most they think I'm a nice friend and I think they're a nice friend but it usually doesn't go beyond that. If it does they are quick to shut me down since I'm not up to their standards (you wouldn't believe how many nerdy chicks only want the extremely hot guys, they're as shallow as anybody else). It's also harder for me since i'm atheist and the country is 80 christian. Thinking the center of someone's belief doesn't exist is a turn off -___-. The dumb ones also seem to be easier to compromise with since they usually don't care.

I'm trying to turn from a friend zone guy to a hot guy. I find it funny how most chicks will say they aren't shallow but I get a lot more attention since I dropped 50 pounds, wonder how it'll be once I finally get abs in a few months.

People called me "big boy" all the time even though I found it annoying. I don't find big women attractive, I lost weight to attract skinnier women. I know it's mind blowing. I don't really care if i'm being shallow but the first thing that attracts you to a person is physical. If she's sexy and has a good personality wouldn't she be better than the fat chick?